The Everygirl

Flee So this particular day, I came to the office as  usual. It was another gracious Tuesday; the counselling day of the week. It has been my custom to avoid any other day for counselling except on rare cases. Julie, my beautiful wife has been my backbone since the day we got married and I had promised not to hurt her a bit either by my moves or actions. I had kept to that promise until that fateful day when Sis Gloria, one of the choristers in our church called me on phone sobbing uncontrollably. It was on a Saturday evening. I had just concluded my message for Sunday sermon and had blasted in tongues for hours... The devil was in trouble. I had to rush to the office to attend to her, I felt her case was urgent. I forgot to drop a message for my wife who had gone for the Regional Women's Conference and won't be back till Sunday evening. I met Sis Gloria in front of my office still crying profusely. My heart went out for her. This was the beautiful and melodious Glori...

Loving yourself  is not an indication of arrogance,vanity, narcissism or self-importance. Actually it is just the opposite, loving yourself is an expression of respect, appreciation and gratitude for the magnificent, creative and glorious human being you are. Think about this; Have you ever experienced a sense of awe, delight and wonder in the presence of a newborn or infant. They are a bundle of love bringing a smile to your face just by being in their presence.They are filled with curiosity as they discover their fingers and toes and then the world around them. You were once like this whole in body-mind-spirit. Free of judgments about yourself. Then as you began to grow up you learnt through your parents, teachers, friends,the media, etc. how to view yourself. If your parents were abusive, physically or emotionally, you came to believe that there was something wrong with you. If the media portrayed beauty, intelligence and success in a particular way and you did no...